Chapter 6

In their 2022 study, Drs. Morgan and Koenig Kellas looked at how parents and children religious differences impacts their relationship. Taking directly from their abstract, which stated, “significant religious difference in the family has become increasingly prevalent in recent years. While religious difference may be challenging for families to negotiate, the manner in which family members communicate about it seems to be helpful in promoting positive interactions between parents and children. The purpose of [their] study was to conceptualize a parental communicated (non)acceptance continuum in the context of significant parent-child religious difference. [The authors] conducted semi-structured interviews with 44 adults who identified a significant religious difference with their parent. The results suggested that communicated (non)acceptance occurred along a continuum with four ranges of behaviors: communicated nonacceptance, ambivalence, communicated acceptance, and idealized communicated acceptance. [They] discuss the characteristics of each part of the continuum and conclude by identifying key theoretical and translational implications.” If this study sounds of interest to you head over to the Journal of Family Communication and search for Communicating across eternal divides: Conceptualizing communicated acceptance during parent-child religious difference by Drs. Morgan and Koenig Kellas.

Confirmation

occurs when one person communicates in ways that validate and respect the other person(s)

Dialogue

refers to an interactive, conversational involvement between two or more persons.

Disconfirmation

which occurs when one person communicates with another person(s) in ways that show a lack of regard

Family estrangement

which is acting in ways that demonstrate a lack of family intimacy, ranging from reduced interaction to relationship termination between a subset of the family or the family as a whole

Family rituals 

as a recurring communication event that is voluntary, undertaken jointly by family members to honor something important in the relationship.

Negative rituals

are also patterned events that produce and reproduce a family’s social relations

Recognition

communicate attention to others’ presence or role

Relational currencies

which are behaviors that promote family affection and caring

Relationship maintenance

as behaviors people use to sustain relationships

Respect

involves messages and actions that demonstrate caring for others and their well-being